Puppy socialisation and its importance

What does puppy socialisation mean?

Puppies get used to whatever they are exposed to at a young age. If puppies only know the three or four people in their family, they are likely to become fearful or aggressive towards other people as they grow up. Similarly, they will be scared of buses, trucks, other dogs or even people wearing hats or sunglasses if they have never been exposed to them.

Puppy socialisation means controlled positive exposure to, and interaction with, various objects, sounds, smells, people, animals and environments. It is the special learning process that allows dogs to function effectively in society. Dog socialisation enables dogs to learn to accept the close proximity of people as well as other dogs and animals.

Cocker Spaniel Puppy getting his fur dried with a blower


Why is puppy socialisation so important?

Unfortunately, most people are unaware of the importance of actively socialising their dogs when they are young puppies. It is one of the most important things to do with your puppy to help him build confidence and become a well-balanced dog.

To minimise the likelihood of problematic puppy behaviour persisting into adulthood, it is essential that a carefully planned dog socialisation program is implemented early. This will enable the puppy to receive controlled exposure to the range of people, places, other animals, noises and situations that he is likely to encounter in the real world and learn to respond appropriately to them.


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What is the puppy socialisation period?

The puppy socialisation period starts at 4 weeks of age and continues to about 3 months of age. This time span is the optimal puppy socialisation window because it is the critical age for the puppy to learn appropriate dog socialisation skills.

Up until 8 weeks, the puppy is ideally still with his mother and litter mates, and mum will teach her offspring species-specific puppy behaviour – in other words, how to be dogs. She teaches them how to bite and what it feels like to be bitten, and they learn not to bite too hard. It is important for puppies to learn this lesson when they are young, so that they do not hurt people or other dogs as adults.

Good breeders will commence dog socialisation training before puppies go home with their new owners at around 8 weeks, introducing them to lots of new experiences so that they won’t be afraid of them later. Positive interactions with people at this young age play an important role in how they continue to interact as older puppies and into adulthood.

For the new owner, the best time to focus on dog socialisation is from 8 to 16 weeks of age, as during this time the puppy is in his ‘sensitive phase’ and most learning is permanent. This is the time when you can have the greatest impact on your new puppy’s social development. Puppies of this age are like little sponges and take things in very easily. Additionally, sociability outweighs fear, and the puppy will most readily accept and adapt to new people, places, animals and experiences. Be aware that the same way he will remember positive encounters forever, he will also remember negative experiences. So, try and make sure that all experiences for your puppy are positive until at least around 16 weeks.

The window for optimal puppy socialisation closes at around three months old, when puppies start to become nervous and fearful of unfamiliar people and events. Additionally, from 3 months puppies become increasingly independent and suspicious of new things that they could present a potential risk to them. Failure to socialise adequately before 3 months of age can make it difficult for puppies to learn from exposure to new things in a way that leads to positive puppy behaviour.


Puppy behaviour

At birth, puppies possess the beginnings of their later personality and temperament. Genetics will influence a puppy’s behaviour, with some breeds being more sociable than others. Particular behavioural traits may also be inherited from parents, notwithstanding that individual puppies in a litter will all have different personalities; some may be sociable, affectionate, and playful, while others may be overly shy or aggressive.

By the time puppies begin to interact with the world, they have the potential to develop a range of behaviours, positive as well as negative. What they are exposed to during the critical learning period will largely determine the specific behaviours they later exhibit as older puppies and adults.

It cannot be emphasised enough that experiences during the first three to four months of life are extremely important for a puppy’s long-term development. Well-socialised puppies will feel comfortable with people and other animals and will begin initiating interaction with them. Puppies that experience poor or insufficient socialisation during the optimal puppy socialisation period are more likely to develop behavioural problems later in life, including fear, avoidance and/or aggression. These may be evident in behaviours such as excessive barking, growling at visitors and lunging at other dogs on walks.

For optimal puppy behaviour, it is essential to expose him at this young age to many of the people, dogs, objects, sounds and environments he may encounter in later life, including being left alone for short periods, visiting the vet and travelling in the car. Another way facilitate positive puppy behaviour is by attending dog socialisation classes. After any form of dog socialisation training, puppies should continue to be regularly exposed to the things they have learned from to reinforce the positive behaviour, otherwise this will be forgotten.


How to socialise your puppy

Use treats: Feeding your puppy treats while he is experiencing new things will help to create a positive association.

Create space: Introduce your puppy to new encounters at a distance first and let your puppy show willingness to move forward to say hello to the new object/ person/dog/other animal. Dragging a scared puppy to a running lawn mower, for example, and expecting treats to solve the problem will not work in the long run.

Move at your puppy’s pace: Some dogs are more confident; others are shy or timid and some are boisterous and show no fear. Take your time when socialising your puppy and don’t rush him into a new situation. It might just scare him.

Break new encounters down: A vacuum cleaner has different elements – the object itself, plus the sound and the fact that it moves. Introduce your puppy to all three of them independently before you add them together.

Don’t overwhelm: It is important to socialise your puppy to as many things as possible at a very young age (8-16 weeks) but take care not to overwhelm your puppy by doing too much too soon.


Your puppy and dog parks

Socialisation doesn’t just mean taking your puppy to the dog park and exposing him to multiple dogs. Dog parks are often uncontrolled environments and your puppy could easily get a fright with dogs approaching, chasing or snarling at him. And it is not uncommon for some adult or older dogs not to like puppies. A negative experience at a young age could result in your puppy being scared of other dogs for the rest of his life.

French Bulldog puppy at the dog park

If you want to expose your dog safely to other dogs, take him to a strictly on-leash dog park where ALL dogs are on a leash and, as per the recommendations above, remember to take it slow.

It is also important not to over-socialise your puppy as he may become too needy of constant stimulation. Your puppy doesn’t have to play with other dogs all the time and every day.

Pups that can amuse themselves and tolerate being left alone for short periods may be less likely to develop over-attachment to owners and separation anxiety when the owner leaves.


Introducing your puppy to new experiences

Continued positive exposure to a variety of people and other animals, new environments and stimuli, as your puppy grows and develops, is an essential part of dog socialisation training and maintaining positive puppy behaviour.

Owner protection puppy from the rain on a dock during a storm

Try to implement all, or most, of the following:

  • Expose him to a wide range of people, including children, toddlers, babies, women and men, including men with beards, caps, sunglasses, hoodies, boots, etc.
  • Expose him to household noises such as vacuum cleaners, music, television, blenders, banging doors, power tools, microwaves etc.
  • Gently handle his ears, feet, tail, mouth, and collar daily
  • Travel in the car with him
  • Allow him to spend time in a crate
  • Leave him on his own for short periods of time
  • Walk him on a lead
  • Get him used to walking on different surfaces like concrete paths, bitumen, gravel, sand, grass and wet grass
  • Introduce him to different dogs (who have been vaccinated)
  • Expose him to other animals, including cats, in a positive way
  • Place his meals in food puzzle toys
  • Provide toys for him to play with, with you and alone
  • Commence house-training
  • Teach him to sit when greeting people, instead of jumping up
  • Attend dog socialisation classes with him


Socialisation program for your puppy

Because getting your puppy used to all sort of things in life is so important, we have provided you with a socialisation plan for you and your family to help with socialising your puppy.

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